Neto's Tucson: Severely wounded vet appreciates being alive

2013-02-17T00:00:00Z 2013-02-17T21:15:57Z Neto's Tucson: Severely wounded vet appreciates being aliveErnesto Portillo Jr. Arizona Daily Star Arizona Daily Star
February 17, 2013 12:00 am  • 

You can't help but notice Brian Kolfage Jr.'s prostheses when you meet him.

That's right, prostheses, plural. He has three of them - two legs and an arm.

But then you see the stuff that really matters - his warm smile, his soothing voice, his positive spirit.

"I don't let all the little stuff bother me," said Kolfage, a fourth-year architecture student at the University of Arizona.

Kolfage is a former U.S. airman, an Iraq War veteran and triple amputee. He lost his limbs in a rocket attack on Sept. 11, 2004.

That's a somber anniversary for the United States and the victims of the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks, but Kolfage has a slightly different take on that date.

"It's when I celebrate that I'm still alive," he said.

Kolfage, a security specialist in the Air Force, was in Kuwait for his second Middle East tour. He didn't want to stay there. He wanted to be closer to the war.

He volunteered for forward duty at an Army base in Iraq and was sent to Balad. A couple of weeks later, after working a night shift, he awoke at midday. He stepped outside his tent to get water and walked a few steps.

A 107-mm rocket shell landed three feet away. His buddies found him face down and turned him over.

His right hand was all but severed. His legs were gone. But he was conscious.

Within a few minutes, medics moved him to the base hospital. Thirty-six hours later he was at Walter Reed National Military Medical Center in Washington, D.C.

The war, at the time, was still relatively young. Kolfage was one of the first severely wounded service personnel.

By most standards, he was in horrible shape. He underwent 16 surgeries and months of intensive physical therapy.

But from his perspective, he was all right. At Walter Reed, he saw service personnel whose bodies and brains were destroyed.

"There were guys with severe head wounds and guys whose bodies were in worse shape than mine," said Kolfage. "You have to put things in perspective."

In April 2005, he retired from the Air Force but was still in rehab at Walter Reed. Several months later the Air Force, which has paid for his medical care and education, offered him a civilian job. Although he was born in Michigan and grew up in Hawaii, he picked Tucson. He had visited here once, and liked it.

He began working at Davis-Monthan Air Force Base in January 2006 as a civilian employee and stayed for two years. He wanted to start something new.

This semester at the UA, Kolfage entered a national architecture competition. The goal is to design an 180,000-square-foot building made of engineered wood for a live-and-work space in New York City.

The project seemed challenging, and he likes that. He develops it and does other work primarily on his laptop computer. Sometimes he uses a pencil to sketch preliminary ideas.

His project mentor, architect and assistant professor Chris Trumble, calls him "an excellent manual draftsman."

Kolfage spends about 12 hours a week in the architecture college lab classroom, the one with the glass wall facing East Speedway. Combined with his other classes and nightly homework, school "is pretty much a full-time job."

In the months after the mortar tore off his right hand, Kolfage learned to use his left. Every action had to be relearned, starting with buttoning a shirt.

His severe injuries and recovery have given him another perspective on life: He is deeply grateful he has complete use of his brain and his heart.

"Before I was injured, I probably would not have been this appreciative," he said. "Life is fragile."

He credits his family, doctors, nurses, therapists and counselors for his recovery and his positive outlook. He also is grateful to Ashley Goetz Kolfage, his wife of nearly two years.

"Ashley appreciates me for me and accepts me for who I am."

They met in San Angelo, Texas, her hometown, while Kolfage was stationed there before he lost his limbs. After he moved to Tucson, he contacted her in San Angelo. That eventually led them down the aisle.

"He's pretty independent," said Ashley, 27, who teaches second grade.

She humbly deflects credit for her husband's outlook on life. It's all him, she says.

"Once you look past his injuries and get to know him, he's a regular guy," she said.

Their regular life will soon include a new addition. The couple recently learned that they're expecting their first child.

In the years since his near-fatal injury and his release from Walter Reed, Kolfage has returned to the hospital several times. But not as a patient - he counsels fellow injured veterans.

He listens to their pain and anger. He shares his experience.

And he tells them he is grateful to be living.

"There were guys with severe head wounds and guys whose bodies

were in worse shape than mine.

You have to put things in perspective."

Brian Kolfage Jr.,

who lost both legs and right arm while serving in Iraq

Find Kolfage at www.facebook.com/briankolfage Ernesto "Neto" Portillo Jr. is editor of La Estrella de Tucsón. He can be reached at (520) 573-4187 or at netopjr@azstarnet.com

Copyright 2014 Arizona Daily Star. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.

Activate

Follow the Arizona Daily Star

Featured businesses

View more...

Deals, offers & events

View more...
Get weekly ads via e-mail