● DEAR ABBY: When I first read the letter from "Wounded Bride," whose father left immediately after her wedding ceremony to watch a football game on television, I thought, "What an insensitive, inconsiderate boor!" However, when I saw the signature, "Wounded Bride in Nebraska," I laughed.
I was born and raised in Nebraska. The percentage of the population in Nebraska who are not obsessed with football is definitely in the minority. It has reached the point where weddings, birthday celebrations, anniversaries — even women's C-sections — are planned around the Cornhuskers' schedule.
What her father did was wrong, yet he probably was never taught anything different. I'd cut the guy some slack. — Reformed Cornhusker Fan, Massachusetts
DEAR REFORMED: I told "Wounded Bride" that her father might have been trying to send her a message about his feelings about her marriage. Of course, when I penned my answer, I had no idea how pervasive football fanaticism has become. Read on:
People are also reading…
● DEAR ABBY: Although I feel her pain, I had to chuckle. We just moved from Nebraska, and believe me when I say that "Husker" is the state religion.
Some close friends recently planned their son's marriage around the Cornhuskers' football schedule, and another friend was late to his own wedding because he was watching "the game." — Brenda in Aurora, Colo.
● DEAR ABBY: Having grown up in Nebraska, I can tell you there are Catholic priests and Protestant ministers who refuse to perform weddings on game day. Repairmen refuse to come until the game is over. My wife is a nurse, and when she worked in the hospitals there, she knew of doctors who put off patients until the game was over. Nothing in Nebraska is more important — at least in their minds. It's one of the reasons we moved away. — Former Nebraskan in Texas
● DEAR ABBY: My in-laws' anniversary was in the fall, and we had to plan their 60th on a weekend other than game day or many guests would not have come. Heck, my father-in-law might not have come! They played the Nebraska fight song at his funeral, and everyone cried. — Husker Fan, Rocklin, Calif.